Question 1

🧓🏽 Is dementia just old age?

Accepted Answer

No. 
While dementia mostly affects older people, it is not the same as aging. Many older adults age without ever developing dementia. Dementia is caused by damage to brain cells, not just “getting old.” If your loved one starts forgetting familiar names, gets confused in familiar places, or changes behavior suddenly, it may be more than age.

Question 2

💊 Can dementia be cured?

Accepted Answer

Not yet.

There is currently no cure for dementia. But early diagnosis and the right support can slow the symptoms, improve quality of life, and help families prepare. Supportive care; like routines, healthy meals, a safe environment, and emotional connection, go a long way.

Question 3

🧠 How do I know if it's dementia or just stress or depression?

Accepted Answer

Dementia can sometimes look like stress or depression, especially in the early stages. If memory loss, confusion, or mood changes are persistent or getting worse, it’s important to see a health professional for a proper assessment.

Question 4

😔 What if my loved one forgets who I am?

Accepted Answer

This is one of the most painful parts of dementia. But try to remember; it’s not personal. Their brain is struggling, but their heart still knows love.
 • Continue to speak gently, even if they don’t remember you
 • Use familiar photos or songs to reconnect
 • Be present. Sometimes your voice or touch is enough
 • Remind yourself: they are still your parent, grandparent, or sibling - just facing a hard journey

Question 5

🚶🏾‍♂️ What do I do if my loved one wanders?

Accepted Answer

Wandering is common in dementia. It can be frightening and dangerous, but it is possible to manage. Here’s what helps:
 • Keep doors and gates secure
 • Place a note with their name and your phone number in their pocket
 • Tell neighbors and local shops to contact you if they see them wandering
 • Use a tracking bracelet or ID band if available
 • Try to keep a calm, familiar routine; it reduces anxiety and restlessness

Question 6

🛏️ Why is my loved one awake all night and restless?

Accepted Answer

Dementia can disrupt sleep patterns, causing nighttime wandering or agitation. Try creating a calming evening routine, reducing naps during the day, and keeping lights low at night. If the problem continues, seek medical advice.

Question 7

👩🏾‍⚕️ Where can I go for help?

Accepted Answer

You can:
 • Visit your nearest clinic or hospital and ask for dementia screening.
 • Speak to a Mental Health Practitioner.
 • Contact DementiaAware Kenya for support groups, advice, and awareness events.

Question 8

💬 My loved one gets angry easily. Is that part of dementia?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Dementia can affect mood and behavior. The person may become easily irritated, suspicious, or even aggressive. It’s often due to confusion, fear, or frustration. Stay calm, speak gently, and try to understand what might be triggering the reaction.

Question 9

🍽️ They don’t want to eat or drink. What should I do?

Accepted Answer

Loss of appetite is common. Try small, familiar meals in a quiet setting. Avoid forcing. Instead, offer finger foods or drinks they enjoy. If weight loss is noticeable, consult a health worker.

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